"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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logicallefty

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My step dad is 81. He was diagnosed with cancer recently and has 20-30 weeks to live. I have always thought he "got it" with women and the world in general just by the way he treats my mother and acts others. She loves him to death even though he can sometimes be a little bit of a d|ck.

But sense he was diagnosed with cancer he has really starting spilling his guts about women. Saying sh|t he has never said before like:

- All women are f\_/cking crazy

- The only thing women are good for is pu$$y

- He starting talking about all the pu$$y he got in the Army and when he was single

- Started saying that women think their pu$$y can buy them anything

- Started saying that women don't belong anywhere other than the kitchen

- Started asking about how to look at porn without getting viruses

Again, my mother just laughs it off. She is about as crude as the late Joan Rivers so she don't care. It's all funny to her..

It was almost like he was just trying to be polite all these years and now that he knows he is gonna die he just doesn't give a f\_/ck and is spilling it.

He has been a d|ck to my mother and to me at times, but I really don't want to see him go.

What is my point in this post? I really don't know. I guess deep down I don't want to see the old f\_/cker die.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sorry about your dad, that sucks. I have to laugh at what he's saying though because when I was 13 when my grandfather was dying of lung cancer. One day at the hospital when my dad wasn't there, my grandfather said the same thing to me. I was telling him about some girl I was crushing on at school and how it sucked that she liked the ugly douche bag on the bus. He told me to never base my self worth and happiness on a woman. Then he gave me the reasons your dad gave you. He also said to never take advice from my dad about women because my dad is clueless and doesn't understand them because the only one he was ever with was my mom and she's extremely rare high quality. I thought he was a total jerk for saying this, thought he was bitter because he was dying. But I see now he had a point.
 

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Also, I'll say my dad is developing the same attitude and doesn't seem so naive about women, even though he's still with my mom.
 

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Thank you for your replies, jc_80.

Perhaps our two stories drive home the point of how more men used to think more alpha/red pill about women (your grampa, my step dad), but then they swayed the other way towards beta/blue pill (your dad who I assume is younger than my step dad).

Glad to hear your dad is starting to "get it" though. You should invite him to SS lol
 

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That's probably why your grand mother stayed with him.... He's ALPHA, and she knows it....
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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