"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My step dad is 81. He was diagnosed with cancer recently and has 20-30 weeks to live. I have always thought he "got it" with women and the world in general just by the way he treats my mother and acts others. She loves him to death even though he can sometimes be a little bit of a d|ck.

But sense he was diagnosed with cancer he has really starting spilling his guts about women. Saying sh|t he has never said before like:

- All women are f\_/cking crazy

- The only thing women are good for is pu$$y

- He starting talking about all the pu$$y he got in the Army and when he was single

- Started saying that women think their pu$$y can buy them anything

- Started saying that women don't belong anywhere other than the kitchen

- Started asking about how to look at porn without getting viruses

Again, my mother just laughs it off. She is about as crude as the late Joan Rivers so she don't care. It's all funny to her..

It was almost like he was just trying to be polite all these years and now that he knows he is gonna die he just doesn't give a f\_/ck and is spilling it.

He has been a d|ck to my mother and to me at times, but I really don't want to see him go.

What is my point in this post? I really don't know. I guess deep down I don't want to see the old f\_/cker die.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sorry about your dad, that sucks. I have to laugh at what he's saying though because when I was 13 when my grandfather was dying of lung cancer. One day at the hospital when my dad wasn't there, my grandfather said the same thing to me. I was telling him about some girl I was crushing on at school and how it sucked that she liked the ugly douche bag on the bus. He told me to never base my self worth and happiness on a woman. Then he gave me the reasons your dad gave you. He also said to never take advice from my dad about women because my dad is clueless and doesn't understand them because the only one he was ever with was my mom and she's extremely rare high quality. I thought he was a total jerk for saying this, thought he was bitter because he was dying. But I see now he had a point.
 

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Also, I'll say my dad is developing the same attitude and doesn't seem so naive about women, even though he's still with my mom.
 

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Thank you for your replies, jc_80.

Perhaps our two stories drive home the point of how more men used to think more alpha/red pill about women (your grampa, my step dad), but then they swayed the other way towards beta/blue pill (your dad who I assume is younger than my step dad).

Glad to hear your dad is starting to "get it" though. You should invite him to SS lol
 

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That's probably why your grand mother stayed with him.... He's ALPHA, and she knows it....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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