"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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My step dad is 81. He was diagnosed with cancer recently and has 20-30 weeks to live. I have always thought he "got it" with women and the world in general just by the way he treats my mother and acts others. She loves him to death even though he can sometimes be a little bit of a d|ck.

But sense he was diagnosed with cancer he has really starting spilling his guts about women. Saying sh|t he has never said before like:

- All women are f\_/cking crazy

- The only thing women are good for is pu$$y

- He starting talking about all the pu$$y he got in the Army and when he was single

- Started saying that women think their pu$$y can buy them anything

- Started saying that women don't belong anywhere other than the kitchen

- Started asking about how to look at porn without getting viruses

Again, my mother just laughs it off. She is about as crude as the late Joan Rivers so she don't care. It's all funny to her..

It was almost like he was just trying to be polite all these years and now that he knows he is gonna die he just doesn't give a f\_/ck and is spilling it.

He has been a d|ck to my mother and to me at times, but I really don't want to see him go.

What is my point in this post? I really don't know. I guess deep down I don't want to see the old f\_/cker die.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sorry about your dad, that sucks. I have to laugh at what he's saying though because when I was 13 when my grandfather was dying of lung cancer. One day at the hospital when my dad wasn't there, my grandfather said the same thing to me. I was telling him about some girl I was crushing on at school and how it sucked that she liked the ugly douche bag on the bus. He told me to never base my self worth and happiness on a woman. Then he gave me the reasons your dad gave you. He also said to never take advice from my dad about women because my dad is clueless and doesn't understand them because the only one he was ever with was my mom and she's extremely rare high quality. I thought he was a total jerk for saying this, thought he was bitter because he was dying. But I see now he had a point.
 

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Also, I'll say my dad is developing the same attitude and doesn't seem so naive about women, even though he's still with my mom.
 

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Thank you for your replies, jc_80.

Perhaps our two stories drive home the point of how more men used to think more alpha/red pill about women (your grampa, my step dad), but then they swayed the other way towards beta/blue pill (your dad who I assume is younger than my step dad).

Glad to hear your dad is starting to "get it" though. You should invite him to SS lol
 

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That's probably why your grand mother stayed with him.... He's ALPHA, and she knows it....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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