"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sending a text to the wrong person...on purpose

Captain_Hampton

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Ever done this? I'm sure this isn't new, but I just thought of it and I think it would be hilarious.

Something like...

ME: Wow...I never expected you to be so bad! Your halo is so crooked now

GIRL: What are you talking about?

ME: Oops. That wasn't for you, well at least not yet...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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katatonia

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LOL I can see how 'accidentally' sending a text to a girl you're interested in can work, though I wouldn't try it unless I knew the chances of being caught were slim to none and the girl knows you're not a total loser who is sending her a fake message on purpose.

By the way, the line you used was horrible. I wouldn't be surprised at all if the girl you knew picked up that you were doing it on purpose and her attraction took a nose dive. All I would say is something generic like "I'll come pick you up at 4 on Friday :)". Then after the girl replies "What?" or whatever, you can reply back with a simple "Oops wrong person" or not reply at all for extra mind-fvck.
 

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OR, you can stop being manipulative and grow a pair. Why would you do something like this on purpose? You're not being genuine, if you were a woman would you be attracted to someone like that?

Grow your game to the point where you don't need to do sneaky sh*t like this.

Oh, and stop using texting. Texting is for women and boys.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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bukowski_merit

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Vice said:
Oh, and stop using texting. Texting is for women and boys.
I disagree 100%... texting has uses.... especially if you're very good with words...


However, I can't quite agree with sending corny text messages on "accident". Terrible idea. I've done it a few times on accident. But the day i start doing it on purpose and making it look like an accident - is the day i am officially a female!
 

AAAgent

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Sounds pretty creepy and fake to me. Girls can tell by your attitude if your a player or someone trying to be a player. If you're faking something like that you're definitely trying to be a player which most likely will be obvious.
 
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