I think I'm starting to see the results of positive self talk. Like Pook says you are what you think. Visualize your goal train your sub concsious with affirmations etc. etc. I would just like to play devils advocate for a second to see peoples reactions. is it possible with these techniques you could be setting yourself up for dsapointment?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Self talk and inner game
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
always think positive, always assume the best...
No reason to think negative...back in 07 I had some real delusional beliefs that helped me a lot...but you must not be affected when your wrong...
If anything...don't be negative...I got blown out in 90% of my sets all last week...
No reason to think negative...back in 07 I had some real delusional beliefs that helped me a lot...but you must not be affected when your wrong...
If anything...don't be negative...I got blown out in 90% of my sets all last week...
blown out? what does that mean?Snow Plowman said:always think positive, always assume the best...
No reason to think negative...back in 07 I had some real delusional beliefs that helped me a lot...but you must not be affected when your wrong...
If anything...don't be negative...I got blown out in 90% of my sets all last week...
Sir I
Don Juan
the point is, don't turn negative when there is a setback, being positive comes pritty much down to my signature,
There are no problems, only challenges
There are no problems, only challenges
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
Remember, there is Self Confidence, and then there is Self DELUSION.
Your 'gut' will usually keep you in 'check'.
That is why you need to build Authentic Self Esteem and teach your Body that it IS "confident" and that IT CAN 'handle this".
Otherwise, it won't believe you, and hold you back.
It's acually a mechanism of the primal brain. It is used to help keep people in certain social hierarchys.
But in modern societys may Social Staus 'cliques' and 'leagues' be DAMNED.
Rise above that idiocy, self importance, and delusion.
All 'status' and social cliques are fleeting and constantly changing.
If you base your identity and self worth on temporary and ultimately, superficial standards, you will be wasting your time and precious life energy...
Things are reallyu not 'good' or 'bad', it is ALL about how YOU 'react' or preferably, RESPOND to them.
Every challenge you face, you must learn to look at as an opportunity to grow and improve, and build authentic self esteem. No one can ever take that away from you.
We are often our own worst enemy.
Most people do NOT think that badly of us.
In fact, for some of us, people think very highly of us, and are actually interested in ourselves, our well being and peace of mind.
Can you believe that?
You can only bring that into your life if you build Self Esteem,and pursue the road to High Character.
When you do, only those people will be in your social circle.
It may not be huge, but they will be quality people. All who support you in some way.
This gives you more inspiration to be the best Man you can be.
Consistenly improving, learning, growing, evolving.
Sometimes we have to realize that what we think is a problem, actually isn't.
And sometimes when we think we NEED to have a solution, all we may really need to do is sit still, be quiet, and listen.....
There isn't always negative self talk, if you make an effort to 'quiet' your mind,and stop the incessant over analyzation and chatter...
Your 'gut' will usually keep you in 'check'.
That is why you need to build Authentic Self Esteem and teach your Body that it IS "confident" and that IT CAN 'handle this".
Otherwise, it won't believe you, and hold you back.
It's acually a mechanism of the primal brain. It is used to help keep people in certain social hierarchys.
But in modern societys may Social Staus 'cliques' and 'leagues' be DAMNED.
Rise above that idiocy, self importance, and delusion.
All 'status' and social cliques are fleeting and constantly changing.
If you base your identity and self worth on temporary and ultimately, superficial standards, you will be wasting your time and precious life energy...
Things are reallyu not 'good' or 'bad', it is ALL about how YOU 'react' or preferably, RESPOND to them.
Every challenge you face, you must learn to look at as an opportunity to grow and improve, and build authentic self esteem. No one can ever take that away from you.
We are often our own worst enemy.
Most people do NOT think that badly of us.
In fact, for some of us, people think very highly of us, and are actually interested in ourselves, our well being and peace of mind.
Can you believe that?
You can only bring that into your life if you build Self Esteem,and pursue the road to High Character.
When you do, only those people will be in your social circle.
It may not be huge, but they will be quality people. All who support you in some way.
This gives you more inspiration to be the best Man you can be.
Consistenly improving, learning, growing, evolving.
Sometimes we have to realize that what we think is a problem, actually isn't.
And sometimes when we think we NEED to have a solution, all we may really need to do is sit still, be quiet, and listen.....
There isn't always negative self talk, if you make an effort to 'quiet' your mind,and stop the incessant over analyzation and chatter...
This i will take to my grave, well said!Sir I said:the point is, don't turn negative when there is a setback, being positive comes pritty much down to my signature,
There are no problems, only challenges