"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Self Improvement Journal?

elmnick

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I'm thinking of starting a journal of "self improvement" and was wondering what people's opinions are. The main reason for doing it is for me to be able to assess my own progress. The main reason for posting it on SoSuave is to hopefully get some constructive feedback, but more importantly because I believe that if I let other people know than myself I may have more motivation,(though I'm doing it for myself, not to impress people on SoSuave). It's certainly not going to start out at a high level, people would probably learn from my mistakes better than from what I do :)
I was just wondering if people think this type of thing is a good idea, what I should include, and where to post it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The Pedantical

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elmnick said:
I'm thinking of starting a journal of "self improvement" and was wondering what people's opinions are. The main reason for doing it is for me to be able to assess my own progress. The main reason for posting it on SoSuave is to hopefully get some constructive feedback, but more importantly because I believe that if I let other people know than myself I may have more motivation,(though I'm doing it for myself, not to impress people on SoSuave). It's certainly not going to start out at a high level, people would probably learn from my mistakes better than from what I do :)
I was just wondering if people think this type of thing is a good idea, what I should include, and where to post it.
I'd suppose it's a good idea, just don't let anyone see it! Imagine how embarassing that would be...
 

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haha, yes, good point
maybe change my username to something more cryptic, as there is a chance this name could be recognised
and of course it's probably not a good idea to reveal too much
 

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elmnick said:
haha, yes, good point
maybe change my username to something more cryptic, as there is a chance this name could be recognised
and of course it's probably not a good idea to reveal too much
Couple of years ago, I had something like that in a notebook, and one of my friends found it. After a couple of days, everyone I knew was asking me about my resolutions to make eye contact with girls :nervous:
 

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The Pedantical said:
Couple of years ago, I had something like that in a notebook, and one of my friends found it. After a couple of days, everyone I knew was asking me about my resolutions to make eye contact with girls :nervous:

:crackup: ahahaaha. dude. that means the worst is behind you.


Elmnick, a self improvement journal is a great idea. props.

cheers
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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