"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Self Improvement Journal?

elmnick

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I'm thinking of starting a journal of "self improvement" and was wondering what people's opinions are. The main reason for doing it is for me to be able to assess my own progress. The main reason for posting it on SoSuave is to hopefully get some constructive feedback, but more importantly because I believe that if I let other people know than myself I may have more motivation,(though I'm doing it for myself, not to impress people on SoSuave). It's certainly not going to start out at a high level, people would probably learn from my mistakes better than from what I do :)
I was just wondering if people think this type of thing is a good idea, what I should include, and where to post it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The Pedantical

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elmnick said:
I'm thinking of starting a journal of "self improvement" and was wondering what people's opinions are. The main reason for doing it is for me to be able to assess my own progress. The main reason for posting it on SoSuave is to hopefully get some constructive feedback, but more importantly because I believe that if I let other people know than myself I may have more motivation,(though I'm doing it for myself, not to impress people on SoSuave). It's certainly not going to start out at a high level, people would probably learn from my mistakes better than from what I do :)
I was just wondering if people think this type of thing is a good idea, what I should include, and where to post it.
I'd suppose it's a good idea, just don't let anyone see it! Imagine how embarassing that would be...
 

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haha, yes, good point
maybe change my username to something more cryptic, as there is a chance this name could be recognised
and of course it's probably not a good idea to reveal too much
 

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elmnick said:
haha, yes, good point
maybe change my username to something more cryptic, as there is a chance this name could be recognised
and of course it's probably not a good idea to reveal too much
Couple of years ago, I had something like that in a notebook, and one of my friends found it. After a couple of days, everyone I knew was asking me about my resolutions to make eye contact with girls :nervous:
 

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The Pedantical said:
Couple of years ago, I had something like that in a notebook, and one of my friends found it. After a couple of days, everyone I knew was asking me about my resolutions to make eye contact with girls :nervous:

:crackup: ahahaaha. dude. that means the worst is behind you.


Elmnick, a self improvement journal is a great idea. props.

cheers
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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