"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Self Improvement Journal?

elmnick

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I'm thinking of starting a journal of "self improvement" and was wondering what people's opinions are. The main reason for doing it is for me to be able to assess my own progress. The main reason for posting it on SoSuave is to hopefully get some constructive feedback, but more importantly because I believe that if I let other people know than myself I may have more motivation,(though I'm doing it for myself, not to impress people on SoSuave). It's certainly not going to start out at a high level, people would probably learn from my mistakes better than from what I do :)
I was just wondering if people think this type of thing is a good idea, what I should include, and where to post it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The Pedantical

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elmnick said:
I'm thinking of starting a journal of "self improvement" and was wondering what people's opinions are. The main reason for doing it is for me to be able to assess my own progress. The main reason for posting it on SoSuave is to hopefully get some constructive feedback, but more importantly because I believe that if I let other people know than myself I may have more motivation,(though I'm doing it for myself, not to impress people on SoSuave). It's certainly not going to start out at a high level, people would probably learn from my mistakes better than from what I do :)
I was just wondering if people think this type of thing is a good idea, what I should include, and where to post it.
I'd suppose it's a good idea, just don't let anyone see it! Imagine how embarassing that would be...
 

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haha, yes, good point
maybe change my username to something more cryptic, as there is a chance this name could be recognised
and of course it's probably not a good idea to reveal too much
 

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elmnick said:
haha, yes, good point
maybe change my username to something more cryptic, as there is a chance this name could be recognised
and of course it's probably not a good idea to reveal too much
Couple of years ago, I had something like that in a notebook, and one of my friends found it. After a couple of days, everyone I knew was asking me about my resolutions to make eye contact with girls :nervous:
 

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The Pedantical said:
Couple of years ago, I had something like that in a notebook, and one of my friends found it. After a couple of days, everyone I knew was asking me about my resolutions to make eye contact with girls :nervous:

:crackup: ahahaaha. dude. that means the worst is behind you.


Elmnick, a self improvement journal is a great idea. props.

cheers
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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