"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Self Improvement Journal?

elmnick

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I'm thinking of starting a journal of "self improvement" and was wondering what people's opinions are. The main reason for doing it is for me to be able to assess my own progress. The main reason for posting it on SoSuave is to hopefully get some constructive feedback, but more importantly because I believe that if I let other people know than myself I may have more motivation,(though I'm doing it for myself, not to impress people on SoSuave). It's certainly not going to start out at a high level, people would probably learn from my mistakes better than from what I do :)
I was just wondering if people think this type of thing is a good idea, what I should include, and where to post it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Pedantical

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elmnick said:
I'm thinking of starting a journal of "self improvement" and was wondering what people's opinions are. The main reason for doing it is for me to be able to assess my own progress. The main reason for posting it on SoSuave is to hopefully get some constructive feedback, but more importantly because I believe that if I let other people know than myself I may have more motivation,(though I'm doing it for myself, not to impress people on SoSuave). It's certainly not going to start out at a high level, people would probably learn from my mistakes better than from what I do :)
I was just wondering if people think this type of thing is a good idea, what I should include, and where to post it.
I'd suppose it's a good idea, just don't let anyone see it! Imagine how embarassing that would be...
 

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haha, yes, good point
maybe change my username to something more cryptic, as there is a chance this name could be recognised
and of course it's probably not a good idea to reveal too much
 

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elmnick said:
haha, yes, good point
maybe change my username to something more cryptic, as there is a chance this name could be recognised
and of course it's probably not a good idea to reveal too much
Couple of years ago, I had something like that in a notebook, and one of my friends found it. After a couple of days, everyone I knew was asking me about my resolutions to make eye contact with girls :nervous:
 

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The Pedantical said:
Couple of years ago, I had something like that in a notebook, and one of my friends found it. After a couple of days, everyone I knew was asking me about my resolutions to make eye contact with girls :nervous:

:crackup: ahahaaha. dude. that means the worst is behind you.


Elmnick, a self improvement journal is a great idea. props.

cheers
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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