"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Self-discipline.. do you have it?

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Self-discipline is defined as..

"discipline and training of oneself, usually for improvement: ". It's basically the ability to control yourself, and your impulses to that of a favorable outcome.

Do you wake up as soon as the alarm goes off? Or do you wait in bed all day and make excuses for yourself?

Do you live a healthy lifestyle? Do you smoke,drink,etc and wish that you didn't but you do it anyway?

Do you keep the promises that you make to yourself? Goals?

Do you approach women regardless of the result?



By learning more self-control you can become a much more powerful person. YOU control your environment, you dont let your environment control you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I have it now when it comes to women.


It feels powerful to have self disapline. You know you can trust yourself in situations where you couldn't.


I also think women pick up on it and find it attractive. It's a sign of strength to be about to go against your impluses. Women know a man who can do this is a man who cannot be controlled.
 
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