"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Self-discipline.. do you have it?

jdon23

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Self-discipline is defined as..

"discipline and training of oneself, usually for improvement: ". It's basically the ability to control yourself, and your impulses to that of a favorable outcome.

Do you wake up as soon as the alarm goes off? Or do you wait in bed all day and make excuses for yourself?

Do you live a healthy lifestyle? Do you smoke,drink,etc and wish that you didn't but you do it anyway?

Do you keep the promises that you make to yourself? Goals?

Do you approach women regardless of the result?



By learning more self-control you can become a much more powerful person. YOU control your environment, you dont let your environment control you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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slaog

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I have it now when it comes to women.


It feels powerful to have self disapline. You know you can trust yourself in situations where you couldn't.


I also think women pick up on it and find it attractive. It's a sign of strength to be about to go against your impluses. Women know a man who can do this is a man who cannot be controlled.
 
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