"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Self-discipline.. do you have it?

jdon23

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Self-discipline is defined as..

"discipline and training of oneself, usually for improvement: ". It's basically the ability to control yourself, and your impulses to that of a favorable outcome.

Do you wake up as soon as the alarm goes off? Or do you wait in bed all day and make excuses for yourself?

Do you live a healthy lifestyle? Do you smoke,drink,etc and wish that you didn't but you do it anyway?

Do you keep the promises that you make to yourself? Goals?

Do you approach women regardless of the result?



By learning more self-control you can become a much more powerful person. YOU control your environment, you dont let your environment control you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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slaog

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I have it now when it comes to women.


It feels powerful to have self disapline. You know you can trust yourself in situations where you couldn't.


I also think women pick up on it and find it attractive. It's a sign of strength to be about to go against your impluses. Women know a man who can do this is a man who cannot be controlled.
 
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