"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Self-discipline.. do you have it?

jdon23

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Self-discipline is defined as..

"discipline and training of oneself, usually for improvement: ". It's basically the ability to control yourself, and your impulses to that of a favorable outcome.

Do you wake up as soon as the alarm goes off? Or do you wait in bed all day and make excuses for yourself?

Do you live a healthy lifestyle? Do you smoke,drink,etc and wish that you didn't but you do it anyway?

Do you keep the promises that you make to yourself? Goals?

Do you approach women regardless of the result?



By learning more self-control you can become a much more powerful person. YOU control your environment, you dont let your environment control you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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slaog

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I have it now when it comes to women.


It feels powerful to have self disapline. You know you can trust yourself in situations where you couldn't.


I also think women pick up on it and find it attractive. It's a sign of strength to be about to go against your impluses. Women know a man who can do this is a man who cannot be controlled.
 
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