"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Self Acceptance = Love

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" You are a unique, worthy individual not because of your status, goals, and external qualities but because you say you are."

- Wayne Dyer

I know It's been preached on this site a lot of times, but I'm in an energize and happy mood tonight that I felt like expressing this. When you Love yourself and accept yourself - Accept who you are as a person and as a human being - Your strengths, your " flaws" and " imperfections", Accept and make peace with your past and your many " past miseries" that have shaped the remarkable and unique character which you are today.

Self acceptance makes you less critical and judgementive, more accepting and tolerating of others and open to loving them for what they are. With the Art of Self acceptance you are basing your self worth not on external values such as your achievements, materialistic possessions and such and such but from a higher level of spiritual consciousness - A Simple love for life and others.

Learn to love and accept yourself and you will be open to loving others.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yes :up:

probably the most important thing to learn. :cheer:

self acceptance = many other things too, such as attraction, and even the solution to many of the problems posted here
 
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damn i thought everybody knows that. i think i must put some more tips. pzz!
 
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