"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Self Acceptance = Love

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" You are a unique, worthy individual not because of your status, goals, and external qualities but because you say you are."

- Wayne Dyer

I know It's been preached on this site a lot of times, but I'm in an energize and happy mood tonight that I felt like expressing this. When you Love yourself and accept yourself - Accept who you are as a person and as a human being - Your strengths, your " flaws" and " imperfections", Accept and make peace with your past and your many " past miseries" that have shaped the remarkable and unique character which you are today.

Self acceptance makes you less critical and judgementive, more accepting and tolerating of others and open to loving them for what they are. With the Art of Self acceptance you are basing your self worth not on external values such as your achievements, materialistic possessions and such and such but from a higher level of spiritual consciousness - A Simple love for life and others.

Learn to love and accept yourself and you will be open to loving others.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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yes :up:

probably the most important thing to learn. :cheer:

self acceptance = many other things too, such as attraction, and even the solution to many of the problems posted here
 
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damn i thought everybody knows that. i think i must put some more tips. pzz!
 
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