“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Seems Wierd.

Dank Juan

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I know I'm over thinking this, but i feel kind of wierd initiating conversation with shy, quiet girls. Any Ideas/Comments? I sit across the room from her, and we've exchanged pleasantries before. Just looking for thoughts.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well you would feel weird because quiet shy girls don't really respond well. Although, the quiet ones are always the naughty ones.
 

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Lol, you need to make her feel comfortable around you, make her open herself up. By telling her something personal about youself, something funny or embarrasing, it'll trigger her brain to automatically trust you more, allowing herself to relax and drop barriers, maybe she'll respond by telling u something embarrasing about herself. Holding strong eye contact can be kinda intimidating, plus using kino might scare her... These factors need to be phased in gradually rather than immediatly. The ideas to break the trust barrier and get to know the person she really is, then work your magic from there.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MrGold said:
Lol, you need to make her feel comfortable around you, make her open herself up. By telling her something personal about youself, something funny or embarrasing, it'll trigger her brain to automatically trust you more, allowing herself to relax and drop barriers, maybe she'll respond by telling u something embarrasing about herself. Holding strong eye contact can be kinda intimidating, plus using kino might scare her... These factors need to be phased in gradually rather than immediatly. The ideas to break the trust barrier and get to know the person she really is, then work your magic from there.
I agree though I dissagree on tellign soemthign embarrassing, makignt hem confortable is key, get her interested, get her confortable and its game over
 
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