"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Seems Wierd.

Dank Juan

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I know I'm over thinking this, but i feel kind of wierd initiating conversation with shy, quiet girls. Any Ideas/Comments? I sit across the room from her, and we've exchanged pleasantries before. Just looking for thoughts.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well you would feel weird because quiet shy girls don't really respond well. Although, the quiet ones are always the naughty ones.
 

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Lol, you need to make her feel comfortable around you, make her open herself up. By telling her something personal about youself, something funny or embarrasing, it'll trigger her brain to automatically trust you more, allowing herself to relax and drop barriers, maybe she'll respond by telling u something embarrasing about herself. Holding strong eye contact can be kinda intimidating, plus using kino might scare her... These factors need to be phased in gradually rather than immediatly. The ideas to break the trust barrier and get to know the person she really is, then work your magic from there.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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MrGold said:
Lol, you need to make her feel comfortable around you, make her open herself up. By telling her something personal about youself, something funny or embarrasing, it'll trigger her brain to automatically trust you more, allowing herself to relax and drop barriers, maybe she'll respond by telling u something embarrasing about herself. Holding strong eye contact can be kinda intimidating, plus using kino might scare her... These factors need to be phased in gradually rather than immediatly. The ideas to break the trust barrier and get to know the person she really is, then work your magic from there.
I agree though I dissagree on tellign soemthign embarrassing, makignt hem confortable is key, get her interested, get her confortable and its game over
 
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