"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Seems Wierd.

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I know I'm over thinking this, but i feel kind of wierd initiating conversation with shy, quiet girls. Any Ideas/Comments? I sit across the room from her, and we've exchanged pleasantries before. Just looking for thoughts.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well you would feel weird because quiet shy girls don't really respond well. Although, the quiet ones are always the naughty ones.
 
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Lol, you need to make her feel comfortable around you, make her open herself up. By telling her something personal about youself, something funny or embarrasing, it'll trigger her brain to automatically trust you more, allowing herself to relax and drop barriers, maybe she'll respond by telling u something embarrasing about herself. Holding strong eye contact can be kinda intimidating, plus using kino might scare her... These factors need to be phased in gradually rather than immediatly. The ideas to break the trust barrier and get to know the person she really is, then work your magic from there.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MrGold said:
Lol, you need to make her feel comfortable around you, make her open herself up. By telling her something personal about youself, something funny or embarrasing, it'll trigger her brain to automatically trust you more, allowing herself to relax and drop barriers, maybe she'll respond by telling u something embarrasing about herself. Holding strong eye contact can be kinda intimidating, plus using kino might scare her... These factors need to be phased in gradually rather than immediatly. The ideas to break the trust barrier and get to know the person she really is, then work your magic from there.
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I agree though I dissagree on tellign soemthign embarrassing, makignt hem confortable is key, get her interested, get her confortable and its game over
 
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