Seems like I'm only attracted to narcissistic, attention-seeking women

[DiegoSantori]

I swear, the last 3 women I dealt with, were only flirting with me for attention, when I wanted to kiss them, they suddenly stopped flirting.

People standing on the sidelines were always telling me "Wow, that chick is totally digging you. Go for it!" or asking "Are you seeing each other?". But in the end, it's always the same story. Chick shows interest, I show interest too, Chick smiles, I smile, I try to seal the deal, she backs off.

It seems to me like they enjoy my attention, try to raise my hopes, so that I don't break off contact with them, but at the same time they stay aloof sending mixed signals.

My good looks have always opened the door, but when I try to step inside, I get the door slammed in my face.

 

[Huffman]

Yeah man, those suck. I guess you're "only" attracted to them because they're usually pretty hot

People are going to tell you to improve your game so you can "break through" all her tests and resistance but hell. It still sucks. Don't want to jump through hoops just to get with a woman who's not worth it.

 

[DiegoSantori]

Yeah man, those suck. I guess you're "only" attracted to them because they're usually pretty hot

That's a valid point. Hot chicks get lots of attention, this is why they 'can afford' to play games like that.

 

[om1xr]

I will just leave this here:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6grs6a5QXNs

This is how you approach and talk without the accent of course lol.

 

[Krueg]

Go for the shy ones! Be aware of girls who approach you!

 

[PeasantPlayer]

When I was in better shape I had girls approach me often. At the time I was young and didn't have a lot of experience with women, now it doesn't happen as much, I get looks more. But I am curious why beware of a women who approaches you?

 

[The LadyKiller]

I'm going through the very same thing myself. Girls in recent weeks show visible IOIs, my friends see them and say all systems are a go, only for the girl to pull away. It has gotten to the point that I'm somewhat jaded as a result, can't believe something until it actually happens.

 

[MillionBillionaire]

All the PUA's will tell you to push and pull better.. get the woman invested in the conversation and don't try soo hard...

That being said.. I am really burnt out atm from "the game" because of this very reason.

I feel like I am in need for some inspiration.