Hey everyone,
I had an interesting experience at a bar night and would love to get your thoughts and advice. Here’s what happened:
1. Initial Interaction: A girl complimented my shoes as she passed by with her two friends (another girl and a guy). We made eye contact, and she approached me smiling and started a conversation, asking about my shoes, tattoos, and name. However, I didn’t engage much with her directly and instead spoke briefly with her male friend.
2. Playful Banter: Later, I engaged in some playful teasing (negging) with her about her hair and why she blinked a lot. She responded playfully, mentioning my glasses. We laughed, but her friend pulled her away shortly after.
3. Brief Interactions: Throughout the evening, there were brief interactions. She sought my attention a few times, and we had short exchanges. At one point, she came back to ask if I was Christian and about my church, but her friend, saying she was drunk, interrupted us.
4. Missed Connection: Despite these interactions and her showing interest, I didn’t get her contact information. Later, as I was leaving a different bar, she spotted me from a restaurant and called out my name, waving goodbye.
I feel like there were many indications of interest from her, but I couldn’t capitalize on them. I ended up not isolating her for a more in-depth conversation or showing enough interest. Looking back, I feel like I might have missed a potential connection.
What do you guys think? Could I have approached this differently? Any advice or similar experiences would be greatly appreciated.
I had an interesting experience at a bar night and would love to get your thoughts and advice. Here’s what happened:
1. Initial Interaction: A girl complimented my shoes as she passed by with her two friends (another girl and a guy). We made eye contact, and she approached me smiling and started a conversation, asking about my shoes, tattoos, and name. However, I didn’t engage much with her directly and instead spoke briefly with her male friend.
2. Playful Banter: Later, I engaged in some playful teasing (negging) with her about her hair and why she blinked a lot. She responded playfully, mentioning my glasses. We laughed, but her friend pulled her away shortly after.
3. Brief Interactions: Throughout the evening, there were brief interactions. She sought my attention a few times, and we had short exchanges. At one point, she came back to ask if I was Christian and about my church, but her friend, saying she was drunk, interrupted us.
4. Missed Connection: Despite these interactions and her showing interest, I didn’t get her contact information. Later, as I was leaving a different bar, she spotted me from a restaurant and called out my name, waving goodbye.
I feel like there were many indications of interest from her, but I couldn’t capitalize on them. I ended up not isolating her for a more in-depth conversation or showing enough interest. Looking back, I feel like I might have missed a potential connection.
What do you guys think? Could I have approached this differently? Any advice or similar experiences would be greatly appreciated.
