"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Seeing your LTR more than once a week

Rainman4707

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Just been reading a post in the DJ bible about LTR's.

One of the rules the OP gave was not to see your LTR more than once a week.

I disagree with that. If you are dating then fair enough, see her once or twice a week, but only seeing your GF once a week stupid

By the way the DJ bible is cool :up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i see my gf whenever I can. If yall see each other everyday unless yall llive with each other or near each other than yall need more responsibilities or one is trying to hard in the relationship.
 

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With a HB I'm dating now we see each other once a week for sure and sometimes twice if there is time. She would see me everyday if possible, but I'm too busy, which I think is the right place to be. I think so long as you aren't as available to see her as she is you, all will be well.
 

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3 days spaced out works great. Did for me in my 5 year relationship , she is still weak for me :crackup:

Friday or Saturday
Monday
Wednesday
 

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My last relationship was ruined because I saw her everyday. And once I began to pull away it was too late.

Gotta find a good balance that works for both of you.

- comic_relief
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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skinnyguy

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I heard that some guys live with a woman. Imagine that.
 

Dhoulmagus

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Bible_Belt said:
Agreed. I call the day after I see her "vaginal recovery day."
That's what I'm saying. You shouldn't be able to see each other everyday because yall should have lifes of yall's own.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BrainDamage92

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I wouldnt call it a LTR and its not serious at all if you dont live together. Just my 2 cents. Living together is where its at, only then you can see if you can stand her or shes an annoying prick couse nobody can keep a mask in these circumstances. The rest is childs play.
 
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