"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Seeing your LTR more than once a week

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Just been reading a post in the DJ bible about LTR's.

One of the rules the OP gave was not to see your LTR more than once a week.

I disagree with that. If you are dating then fair enough, see her once or twice a week, but only seeing your GF once a week stupid

By the way the DJ bible is cool :up:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i see my gf whenever I can. If yall see each other everyday unless yall llive with each other or near each other than yall need more responsibilities or one is trying to hard in the relationship.
 
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With a HB I'm dating now we see each other once a week for sure and sometimes twice if there is time. She would see me everyday if possible, but I'm too busy, which I think is the right place to be. I think so long as you aren't as available to see her as she is you, all will be well.
 
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3 days spaced out works great. Did for me in my 5 year relationship , she is still weak for me :crackup:

Friday or Saturday
Monday
Wednesday
 
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My last relationship was ruined because I saw her everyday. And once I began to pull away it was too late.

Gotta find a good balance that works for both of you.

- comic_relief
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I heard that some guys live with a woman. Imagine that.
 
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Bible_Belt said:
Agreed. I call the day after I see her "vaginal recovery day."
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That's what I'm saying. You shouldn't be able to see each other everyday because yall should have lifes of yall's own.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I wouldnt call it a LTR and its not serious at all if you dont live together. Just my 2 cents. Living together is where its at, only then you can see if you can stand her or shes an annoying prick couse nobody can keep a mask in these circumstances. The rest is childs play.
 
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