Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Seeing a one night stand again...

Reykhel

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What's your opinion on seeing a ons again?

Lately, I've only been doing one night stands...

For various reasons.....mainly I don't really have time to give
during the week etc So it's what suits me the best right now...

But I would say with a ons there's kind of a contract....we're passing a little time
together and you're going/or I'm going in the morning (well mainly it's been in my house so
she goes.....) and that's it...

Last weekend I was with an Italian chick....probably the best sex and the best 'moment' since
at least the summer. Really good night spent and she stayed a while the next day...

Now, I don't know if I went about this the right way......when she was leaving.....I kind of let her go out the door and then.....I thought....that was fvcking really good....I wouldn't mind repeating that........so I kind of called after her as she was leaving "hey why don't you leave me your number?" So, she did........she also lives local....

I threw her a whatsapp during the week and she took two days to answer....granted she said she was away.........

I sent another today after work "hey, some heat eh? I'm going to have a siesta, why don't you join me neighboor?" she replied "I'm working, have a nice siesta ;) )

The question: am I wasting my time trying to "plate" a one night stand? as we've completed our contract....

have you ever "extended" a ons and if so to what extent? Now, it's Friday.....I'm going to go out....I'd like to bang her again.......should I try to hook her up again or is it just a waste of time?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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marmel75

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Go out on the weekrnd and try sending a booty call text after midnight. You'll have your answer.
 
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