"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Seeing a one night stand again...

Reykhel

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What's your opinion on seeing a ons again?

Lately, I've only been doing one night stands...

For various reasons.....mainly I don't really have time to give
during the week etc So it's what suits me the best right now...

But I would say with a ons there's kind of a contract....we're passing a little time
together and you're going/or I'm going in the morning (well mainly it's been in my house so
she goes.....) and that's it...

Last weekend I was with an Italian chick....probably the best sex and the best 'moment' since
at least the summer. Really good night spent and she stayed a while the next day...

Now, I don't know if I went about this the right way......when she was leaving.....I kind of let her go out the door and then.....I thought....that was fvcking really good....I wouldn't mind repeating that........so I kind of called after her as she was leaving "hey why don't you leave me your number?" So, she did........she also lives local....

I threw her a whatsapp during the week and she took two days to answer....granted she said she was away.........

I sent another today after work "hey, some heat eh? I'm going to have a siesta, why don't you join me neighboor?" she replied "I'm working, have a nice siesta ;) )

The question: am I wasting my time trying to "plate" a one night stand? as we've completed our contract....

have you ever "extended" a ons and if so to what extent? Now, it's Friday.....I'm going to go out....I'd like to bang her again.......should I try to hook her up again or is it just a waste of time?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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marmel75

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Go out on the weekrnd and try sending a booty call text after midnight. You'll have your answer.
 
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