"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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See what you have done to me sosuave

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I'm america's worst nightmare!!

Apparantly, I'm an arrogant *******, who gets rediculted for expressing his opinions and standing up for himself when he feels he is right about something that he is passionate about.

other side effects of this site are having a backbone, not taking crap from anyone, actually having an opinion to express and not being afraid to defend it, having morals and values.


BTW I'm back at home, safe and sound.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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:trouble: = backbreaker
:cheer: = me
:moon: = us to the world

comic_relief
 

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I can, I just dont' want to.

Just kiddin. I've just gotten into alot of runins over the last month or so, for no other reason that I stand up for what i believe is right and I dont' take ****.

Funny enough, I got into it with one woman over me quesntioning her belief on something industry related. Ddin't call her out.. didn't say anything negative.. just told her I resepct her opinion but disagree, and this is why.. and I'm an ******* who is arrogant.. ust because I don't bow to her fat ass glory.

and that same woman has been calling me.. Behind my GF's back mind you, as they are actually somewhat friends, trying to "pick my brain and grab lunch"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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backbreaker said:
other side effects of this site are having a backbone, not taking crap from anyone, actually having an opinion to express and not being afraid to defend it, having morals and values.
you needed this site for all this?

I think you need an intensive course of squats
 

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Warboss Alex said:
you needed this site for all this?

I think you need an intensive course of squats
:crackup: It's always about squats, isn't it Alex.
 

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LOL Alex :p

Just started my squats yesterday ;)
 

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backbreaker said:
Apparantly, I'm an arrogant *******,

I told a girl I was God once and she saidif I was God that I should go and sacrifice myself on the cross. I told her she was about 2000 years too late for that and she responded with, "**** YOU AND DIE AGAIN!"

I think you can handle being an arrogant a.sshole.
 

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ValleyDJing said:
I told a girl I was God once and she saidif I was God that I should go and sacrifice myself on the cross. I told her she was about 2000 years too late for that and she responded with, "**** YOU AND DIE AGAIN!"

I think you can handle being an arrogant a.sshole.
but the thing is I'm not really arrogant...

sure of myself? of course

confident in my abilities? check

what triggers the arrogant ******* comments is when I dont' play the status quo game of the woman is right, she's the **** and you are lucky to be in her presence. always agreeing with whatever she says, even if it's dead wrong.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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backbreaker said:
other side effects of this site are having an opinion to express and not being afraid to defend it, having morals and values..
You're kidding, right?
 

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backbreaker said:
other side effects of this site are having a backbone, not taking crap from anyone, actually having an opinion to express and not being afraid to defend it, having morals and values.
You left out a few things

- Analyzing your social interactions like they were cold fusion
- Having to constantly prove how right you are
- Pretending to be an expert because you read some inspirational posts
- Wh0ring for constant attention because nobody likes you in the real world
- Having way too much free time on your hands
- Rabid addicition to posting, trolling, flaming, whining, b!tching and defending your fragile ego.

That about covers it :)
 

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Dude backbreaker,

you seem like a pretty cool bro. But it seems that all you really do on this forum is brag about how cool you are...
 

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D!ck Ramsey said:
You left out a few things

- Analyzing your social interactions like they were cold fusion
- Having to constantly prove how right you are
- Pretending to be an expert because you read some inspirational posts
- Wh0ring for constant attention because nobody likes you in the real world
- Having way too much free time on your hands
- Rabid addicition to posting, trolling, flaming, whining, b!tching and defending your fragile ego.

That about covers it :)
Damn right :rock:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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backbreaker said:
Damn right :rock:
free time on my hands.. take a look at the numbe rof posts and look how long I've actually been here.

I've been home for what.. 5 of the last 30 days..m ost of that being overseas..well about half of that.

Also.. the nature of my work, which is watching races.. requires me to be online alot. therefore, this is anice..w ell not really.. but it's something to do when the pages are loading.

face it man.. i rule
 

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backbreaker said:
free time on my hands.. take a look at the numbe rof posts and look how long I've actually been here.

I've been home for what.. 5 of the last 30 days..m ost of that being overseas..well about half of that.

Also.. the nature of my work, which is watching races.. requires me to be online alot. therefore, this is anice..w ell not really.. but it's something to do when the pages are loading.

face it man.. i rule

No.
 

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seriously.. somewhat.. am I arrogant? God no. but am I sure of myself. God yes. I"m not ashamed of what i've done. So the **** what! if you dont' like it go out and do something you are proud of. otherwise stop getting mad when your Girl is eyeing me and you are pleeding that you are such a nice guy

I'm smart, ambitious, driven, picture perfect health, can dress, I do well for myself.. so Yes.. I feel pretty darn good about myself. too bad you don't
 

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backbreaker said:
free time on my hands.. take a look at the numbe rof posts and look how long I've actually been here.

I've been home for what.. 5 of the last 30 days..m ost of that being overseas..well about half of that.

Also.. the nature of my work, which is watching races.. requires me to be online alot. therefore, this is anice..w ell not really.. but it's something to do when the pages are loading.

face it man.. i rule
I was actually referring to your average SoSuave poster. I don't know you well enough to make the call..

For the record you seem relatively cool to me.. compared to most of the nutless wonders who frequent this place.

Play on playah
 

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no, some people for whatever the reason may be.. maybe because I have a d!ck bigger than a subway footlong I dont' know.. try to hate on me
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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