"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm america's worst nightmare!!

Apparantly, I'm an arrogant *******, who gets rediculted for expressing his opinions and standing up for himself when he feels he is right about something that he is passionate about.

other side effects of this site are having a backbone, not taking crap from anyone, actually having an opinion to express and not being afraid to defend it, having morals and values.


BTW I'm back at home, safe and sound.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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:trouble: = backbreaker
:cheer: = me
:moon: = us to the world

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I can, I just dont' want to.

Just kiddin. I've just gotten into alot of runins over the last month or so, for no other reason that I stand up for what i believe is right and I dont' take ****.

Funny enough, I got into it with one woman over me quesntioning her belief on something industry related. Ddin't call her out.. didn't say anything negative.. just told her I resepct her opinion but disagree, and this is why.. and I'm an ******* who is arrogant.. ust because I don't bow to her fat ass glory.

and that same woman has been calling me.. Behind my GF's back mind you, as they are actually somewhat friends, trying to "pick my brain and grab lunch"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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backbreaker said:
other side effects of this site are having a backbone, not taking crap from anyone, actually having an opinion to express and not being afraid to defend it, having morals and values.
you needed this site for all this?

I think you need an intensive course of squats
 

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Warboss Alex said:
you needed this site for all this?

I think you need an intensive course of squats
:crackup: It's always about squats, isn't it Alex.
 

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LOL Alex :p

Just started my squats yesterday ;)
 

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backbreaker said:
Apparantly, I'm an arrogant *******,

I told a girl I was God once and she saidif I was God that I should go and sacrifice myself on the cross. I told her she was about 2000 years too late for that and she responded with, "**** YOU AND DIE AGAIN!"

I think you can handle being an arrogant a.sshole.
 

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ValleyDJing said:
I told a girl I was God once and she saidif I was God that I should go and sacrifice myself on the cross. I told her she was about 2000 years too late for that and she responded with, "**** YOU AND DIE AGAIN!"

I think you can handle being an arrogant a.sshole.
but the thing is I'm not really arrogant...

sure of myself? of course

confident in my abilities? check

what triggers the arrogant ******* comments is when I dont' play the status quo game of the woman is right, she's the **** and you are lucky to be in her presence. always agreeing with whatever she says, even if it's dead wrong.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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backbreaker said:
other side effects of this site are having an opinion to express and not being afraid to defend it, having morals and values..
You're kidding, right?
 

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backbreaker said:
other side effects of this site are having a backbone, not taking crap from anyone, actually having an opinion to express and not being afraid to defend it, having morals and values.
You left out a few things

- Analyzing your social interactions like they were cold fusion
- Having to constantly prove how right you are
- Pretending to be an expert because you read some inspirational posts
- Wh0ring for constant attention because nobody likes you in the real world
- Having way too much free time on your hands
- Rabid addicition to posting, trolling, flaming, whining, b!tching and defending your fragile ego.

That about covers it :)
 

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Dude backbreaker,

you seem like a pretty cool bro. But it seems that all you really do on this forum is brag about how cool you are...
 

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D!ck Ramsey said:
You left out a few things

- Analyzing your social interactions like they were cold fusion
- Having to constantly prove how right you are
- Pretending to be an expert because you read some inspirational posts
- Wh0ring for constant attention because nobody likes you in the real world
- Having way too much free time on your hands
- Rabid addicition to posting, trolling, flaming, whining, b!tching and defending your fragile ego.

That about covers it :)
Damn right :rock:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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backbreaker said:
Damn right :rock:
free time on my hands.. take a look at the numbe rof posts and look how long I've actually been here.

I've been home for what.. 5 of the last 30 days..m ost of that being overseas..well about half of that.

Also.. the nature of my work, which is watching races.. requires me to be online alot. therefore, this is anice..w ell not really.. but it's something to do when the pages are loading.

face it man.. i rule
 

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backbreaker said:
free time on my hands.. take a look at the numbe rof posts and look how long I've actually been here.

I've been home for what.. 5 of the last 30 days..m ost of that being overseas..well about half of that.

Also.. the nature of my work, which is watching races.. requires me to be online alot. therefore, this is anice..w ell not really.. but it's something to do when the pages are loading.

face it man.. i rule

No.
 

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seriously.. somewhat.. am I arrogant? God no. but am I sure of myself. God yes. I"m not ashamed of what i've done. So the **** what! if you dont' like it go out and do something you are proud of. otherwise stop getting mad when your Girl is eyeing me and you are pleeding that you are such a nice guy

I'm smart, ambitious, driven, picture perfect health, can dress, I do well for myself.. so Yes.. I feel pretty darn good about myself. too bad you don't
 

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backbreaker said:
free time on my hands.. take a look at the numbe rof posts and look how long I've actually been here.

I've been home for what.. 5 of the last 30 days..m ost of that being overseas..well about half of that.

Also.. the nature of my work, which is watching races.. requires me to be online alot. therefore, this is anice..w ell not really.. but it's something to do when the pages are loading.

face it man.. i rule
I was actually referring to your average SoSuave poster. I don't know you well enough to make the call..

For the record you seem relatively cool to me.. compared to most of the nutless wonders who frequent this place.

Play on playah
 

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no, some people for whatever the reason may be.. maybe because I have a d!ck bigger than a subway footlong I dont' know.. try to hate on me
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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