"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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See a girl rarley, how to go about workin it?

Whatevs

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I see this chick I like abotu once a week at an acting class because she lives about 30 minutes away, so we dont go to school together or anything.

I talk to her in between texting, etc.

She currently has a bf that no one likes so that will probably be over pretty soon.

I was wondering how I should go about workin it (for after she isnt taken) in between seeing her at class.

Should I not talk to her at all in between? or what?

Thanks!
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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In other words, what should I do to catch a chick that is long distance? I mean, what should I do differently then with a girl that I see daily

Thankssssssss
 

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30 mins away isn't exactly long distance. I mean, that's what, a maximum of 50km's? (or...20miles or some such in the old scale)

Just do what you would do for any other girl, regardless of distance. You must at least set up a date, go on it, and go from there. So, when it's over, call her up and invite her somewhere neutral (like, between where you live, a cafe, movies, whatever you want to do). And yeah.

Don't expect to hold a relationship up with messages and seeing her in class.
 

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When she's single I'll start to work it more. For right now im just gunna kind of warm up the kino so that things can be more serious once shes single.

Thanks man
 

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First of all, this is not the discussion section. But whatever, second:

Whatevs said:
When she's single I'll start to work it more. For right now im just gunna kind of warm up the kino so that things can be more serious once shes single.

Thanks man
This is a bull$hit excuse to not do anything. Grow some balls and get the girl
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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