"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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See a girl rarley, how to go about workin it?

Whatevs

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I see this chick I like abotu once a week at an acting class because she lives about 30 minutes away, so we dont go to school together or anything.

I talk to her in between texting, etc.

She currently has a bf that no one likes so that will probably be over pretty soon.

I was wondering how I should go about workin it (for after she isnt taken) in between seeing her at class.

Should I not talk to her at all in between? or what?

Thanks!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Whatevs

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In other words, what should I do to catch a chick that is long distance? I mean, what should I do differently then with a girl that I see daily

Thankssssssss
 

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30 mins away isn't exactly long distance. I mean, that's what, a maximum of 50km's? (or...20miles or some such in the old scale)

Just do what you would do for any other girl, regardless of distance. You must at least set up a date, go on it, and go from there. So, when it's over, call her up and invite her somewhere neutral (like, between where you live, a cafe, movies, whatever you want to do). And yeah.

Don't expect to hold a relationship up with messages and seeing her in class.
 

Whatevs

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When she's single I'll start to work it more. For right now im just gunna kind of warm up the kino so that things can be more serious once shes single.

Thanks man
 

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First of all, this is not the discussion section. But whatever, second:

Whatevs said:
When she's single I'll start to work it more. For right now im just gunna kind of warm up the kino so that things can be more serious once shes single.

Thanks man
This is a bull$hit excuse to not do anything. Grow some balls and get the girl
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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