"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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See a girl rarley, how to go about workin it?

Whatevs

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I see this chick I like abotu once a week at an acting class because she lives about 30 minutes away, so we dont go to school together or anything.

I talk to her in between texting, etc.

She currently has a bf that no one likes so that will probably be over pretty soon.

I was wondering how I should go about workin it (for after she isnt taken) in between seeing her at class.

Should I not talk to her at all in between? or what?

Thanks!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Whatevs

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In other words, what should I do to catch a chick that is long distance? I mean, what should I do differently then with a girl that I see daily

Thankssssssss
 

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30 mins away isn't exactly long distance. I mean, that's what, a maximum of 50km's? (or...20miles or some such in the old scale)

Just do what you would do for any other girl, regardless of distance. You must at least set up a date, go on it, and go from there. So, when it's over, call her up and invite her somewhere neutral (like, between where you live, a cafe, movies, whatever you want to do). And yeah.

Don't expect to hold a relationship up with messages and seeing her in class.
 

Whatevs

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When she's single I'll start to work it more. For right now im just gunna kind of warm up the kino so that things can be more serious once shes single.

Thanks man
 

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First of all, this is not the discussion section. But whatever, second:

Whatevs said:
When she's single I'll start to work it more. For right now im just gunna kind of warm up the kino so that things can be more serious once shes single.

Thanks man
This is a bull$hit excuse to not do anything. Grow some balls and get the girl
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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