"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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See a girl rarley, how to go about workin it?

Whatevs

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I see this chick I like abotu once a week at an acting class because she lives about 30 minutes away, so we dont go to school together or anything.

I talk to her in between texting, etc.

She currently has a bf that no one likes so that will probably be over pretty soon.

I was wondering how I should go about workin it (for after she isnt taken) in between seeing her at class.

Should I not talk to her at all in between? or what?

Thanks!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Whatevs

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In other words, what should I do to catch a chick that is long distance? I mean, what should I do differently then with a girl that I see daily

Thankssssssss
 

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30 mins away isn't exactly long distance. I mean, that's what, a maximum of 50km's? (or...20miles or some such in the old scale)

Just do what you would do for any other girl, regardless of distance. You must at least set up a date, go on it, and go from there. So, when it's over, call her up and invite her somewhere neutral (like, between where you live, a cafe, movies, whatever you want to do). And yeah.

Don't expect to hold a relationship up with messages and seeing her in class.
 

Whatevs

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When she's single I'll start to work it more. For right now im just gunna kind of warm up the kino so that things can be more serious once shes single.

Thanks man
 

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First of all, this is not the discussion section. But whatever, second:

Whatevs said:
When she's single I'll start to work it more. For right now im just gunna kind of warm up the kino so that things can be more serious once shes single.

Thanks man
This is a bull$hit excuse to not do anything. Grow some balls and get the girl
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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