"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Seducing women with your eyes..
- Thread starter DJnoob
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
al77
Master Don Juan
No I dont think it is a good way...I think women dont like a lot of eye contact, when you are eager to look at her... at her eyes...
it makes you appear too eager.. and somewhat desperate.
Less attention, less eye conact, the more she'll think you are a great man.
I am reading now Leil Lowndes book, she goes on on and eye contact... gee...she is a woman. She is a pretty woman. Of course eye contact works for women. Not for men!
If you stare at her long enough, she'll think you are either weird or desperate. If she stares at you - what would you think? Sure, "She like me!Ohhh!!"
englishcrap
Senior Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Jippii
Don Juan
You don't get laid much, do you?
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I'd reconsider that assumption. The problem that women have had with men looking at them was that we would typically leer at them. Seldom do they ever complain about us looking into their eyes, it was always when we looked elsewhere.
I don't get the idea of how less eye contact would be a characteristic of a great man. I have always felt the feeling of uncomfortableness about the situation or themselves whenever I come across a person that made minimal eye contact. Some people even feel that the person is less than genuine.
What Leil talks about in her book actually works if you're a guy too, at least it does for me. But then again, I don't stare at women. However, I do gaze at them. They typically enjoy it especially when I smile and say "Hello" to them with an approving nod. The usually smile, blush and look away, but only for a moment. When they look up again to see if I'm still enjoying the view, I wink at her in acknowledgment. Things just kicks off from there.
I've said it before but the best way to interact with women is to stimulate her emotionally. When you think about it, how does an attractive guy effects a woman? If you ask a woman, after digging down she will more than likely tell you that his looks made her feel a particular way. Interesting huh?
So consider this, even though you do not look like Brad Pitt, what is stopping you from making a woman feel that particular feeling when she's with you? Could it be how you look at her or how your voice resonates whenever you say her name? ABSOLUTELY!
It's all about your presentation, on multiple levels. Tickle her emotions and you will definitely set yourself off from the typical guy on the street.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
I could not resist.
While it's not generally a good idea to go with women's advice on dating, their opinions about what is or is not sexy are often solid gold. One such example is what a majority of women say is the sexiest part of a man's body: his eyes.
The key, al77, is the difference between good, warm, sensual eye contact, and cold, nervous staring. And people can usually sense the difference from across a big room. It's the quality that makes the difference.
Eye contact and kino are the key points in engaging a woman sexually, unless, of course you are really good with words. But even if you are an ace wordsmith, you can botch the whole thing with poor eye contact.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You must not be talking about Earth, I hold that honor...
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I've noticed that if I give friendly eye contact a chick will normally say "hi", often with a smile on their face.
BTW I have the sexiest eyes in the south. Actually had a teacher in high school stop and mention how hot I am.:cheer: :cheer:
In reality I have women say that I flirt with my eyes.........
Does that make sense? Like there's some unspoken secret that only the two of you know.
The hard part is, how to get that look with any girl you're interested in.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Just busting your balls. Quite trying to think that you need to do this or that to pick up women or appear sexy to them. You are qualifying yourself and most of the time you qualify yourself you are the only one who notices. Come on, Mental Kino? You can sit there for a year trying to practice telekinesis on women but you cant get there panties off or their bra's to unsnap without actual physical contact.
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Your mouth can actually say a lot more though
http://www.insiderreports.com/storypage.asp_Q_ChanID_E_MR_A_StoryID_E_20000305
this thread [Seducing women with your eyes..] is about using your eyes not your mouth mate, start a new one if you want to talk about talking.
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If you haven't realized yet that human interactions are not quantifiable than you are still at square one. Yes women can read body language better than most men. Yes how you present yourself will hold up highly in first impressions. When you feel that keeping your eyes open half way or all the way is what makes or breaks your game you may want to consider your other options. Like I said though you guys can sit around worrying about stupid sh1t like this well someone else moves in with a more congruent and natural game.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.