"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Seducing women with your eyes..
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
al77
Master Don Juan
No I dont think it is a good way...I think women dont like a lot of eye contact, when you are eager to look at her... at her eyes...
it makes you appear too eager.. and somewhat desperate.
Less attention, less eye conact, the more she'll think you are a great man.
I am reading now Leil Lowndes book, she goes on on and eye contact... gee...she is a woman. She is a pretty woman. Of course eye contact works for women. Not for men!
If you stare at her long enough, she'll think you are either weird or desperate. If she stares at you - what would you think? Sure, "She like me!Ohhh!!"
englishcrap
Senior Don Juan
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Jippii
Don Juan
You don't get laid much, do you?
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I'd reconsider that assumption. The problem that women have had with men looking at them was that we would typically leer at them. Seldom do they ever complain about us looking into their eyes, it was always when we looked elsewhere.
I don't get the idea of how less eye contact would be a characteristic of a great man. I have always felt the feeling of uncomfortableness about the situation or themselves whenever I come across a person that made minimal eye contact. Some people even feel that the person is less than genuine.
What Leil talks about in her book actually works if you're a guy too, at least it does for me. But then again, I don't stare at women. However, I do gaze at them. They typically enjoy it especially when I smile and say "Hello" to them with an approving nod. The usually smile, blush and look away, but only for a moment. When they look up again to see if I'm still enjoying the view, I wink at her in acknowledgment. Things just kicks off from there.
I've said it before but the best way to interact with women is to stimulate her emotionally. When you think about it, how does an attractive guy effects a woman? If you ask a woman, after digging down she will more than likely tell you that his looks made her feel a particular way. Interesting huh?
So consider this, even though you do not look like Brad Pitt, what is stopping you from making a woman feel that particular feeling when she's with you? Could it be how you look at her or how your voice resonates whenever you say her name? ABSOLUTELY!
It's all about your presentation, on multiple levels. Tickle her emotions and you will definitely set yourself off from the typical guy on the street.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
I could not resist.
While it's not generally a good idea to go with women's advice on dating, their opinions about what is or is not sexy are often solid gold. One such example is what a majority of women say is the sexiest part of a man's body: his eyes.
The key, al77, is the difference between good, warm, sensual eye contact, and cold, nervous staring. And people can usually sense the difference from across a big room. It's the quality that makes the difference.
Eye contact and kino are the key points in engaging a woman sexually, unless, of course you are really good with words. But even if you are an ace wordsmith, you can botch the whole thing with poor eye contact.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
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I've noticed that if I give friendly eye contact a chick will normally say "hi", often with a smile on their face.
BTW I have the sexiest eyes in the south. Actually had a teacher in high school stop and mention how hot I am.:cheer: :cheer:
In reality I have women say that I flirt with my eyes.........
Does that make sense? Like there's some unspoken secret that only the two of you know.
The hard part is, how to get that look with any girl you're interested in.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Just busting your balls. Quite trying to think that you need to do this or that to pick up women or appear sexy to them. You are qualifying yourself and most of the time you qualify yourself you are the only one who notices. Come on, Mental Kino? You can sit there for a year trying to practice telekinesis on women but you cant get there panties off or their bra's to unsnap without actual physical contact.
belividere
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Your mouth can actually say a lot more though
http://www.insiderreports.com/storypage.asp_Q_ChanID_E_MR_A_StoryID_E_20000305
this thread [Seducing women with your eyes..] is about using your eyes not your mouth mate, start a new one if you want to talk about talking.
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If you haven't realized yet that human interactions are not quantifiable than you are still at square one. Yes women can read body language better than most men. Yes how you present yourself will hold up highly in first impressions. When you feel that keeping your eyes open half way or all the way is what makes or breaks your game you may want to consider your other options. Like I said though you guys can sit around worrying about stupid sh1t like this well someone else moves in with a more congruent and natural game.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.