She does with you the same thing that she may do to you one day. People tend to forget that - and drama followsSlickster said:when a chick cheats on you she instantly becomes a "cheating b!tch" who isn't worthy of your time.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She does with you the same thing that she may do to you one day. People tend to forget that - and drama followsSlickster said:when a chick cheats on you she instantly becomes a "cheating b!tch" who isn't worthy of your time.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Not sure I understand you????AMDG said:She does with you the same thing that she may do to you one day. People tend to forget that - and drama follows![]()
I'm not understanding this, carrying what around your whole life? I personally dont give a sh!t about her husband, I have zero "guilt" or whatever you guys have, why should I ? .TheCzar said:Just ain't worth carrying around your whole life.
TC
Once a cheater always a cheater - that is the short version.Slickster said:Not sure I understand you????
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
( . )( . ) said:I'm not understanding this, carrying what around your whole life? I personally dont give a sh!t about her husband, I have zero "guilt" or whatever you guys have, why should I ? .
Seriously just explain it, what am I missing?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I have a gorgeous married client who I have known for a few years. Last christmas for business I took a box of chocolates to all my clients including her. She was not available and so I left them at her front desk. I got in my car to leave and she ran down the stairs ot to the car park to thank me.Powerlifter said:I have recently met a physcial therapy at the nursing home where my mother is staying. She is married with 2 boys and a girl and very attractive sorta looks like Jennifer Aniston just a sexy looking lady.
When we were introduced by the admissions officer of the nursing home she introduced her as one of the physcial therpist there and I comedically said at the time I feel I need physcial therapy. Before she left she smiled and said it was nice meeting me and I said the same.
I didn't realize this would be the same lady who would be giving my Mom physcial therpy and as time has gone on I took note that one time her husband called her while I was in the therpy room and she slammed the phone down in which one of her co-workers remarked wow! whats going on and another co-worker said she married thats what and then the one I like says no you just married the right one.
During this exchanges I noticed her eye contact was strong at me and she even walked away and started messing with her hair putting it up exposing her neck after this she was talking and saying to her co-workers she will be 40 this summer and she won't be there working and she will be on a beach somewhere in a bikini.
Long story short this lady has given me strong eye contact plus the most wide and teeth showing beautiful smile I have ever experieced with a woman. I also noticed one time she pulled her car up next to my truck as when I parked it she was in the parking space up front to the left of me and when I came out it was next to mine driver side facing mine at the time I didn't know this was her car until later and I was sensing a hint of something she was trying to say without saying it.
Off and on now for 6 weeks now her smile is always warm and feel there is something there but I stop myself because she is married. I also asked the admissions officer about her and she said she was happyly married but the signs this lady gives says she is ready for adventure and I am willing to give it but really don't know how to get started.
She still wears her wedding band but I notice she use to wear two rings now it's on the one not sure what that means.
Any suggestions on where to go from here as my Mom will be going home in a couple weeks and won't be seeing her I am 50 in great shape single with no kids of my own and would really like to see where this can go also forgive my grammer and spelling.
So far I have not given her any compliments but have talked with her about Moms progress and have not really dug deeper in what makes her tick.
Thanks for any suggestions.
Powerlifter