"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Seducing married men?

narcissist

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djgirl said:
You can bad mouth me all you want, at the end of the day shiz like this goes on all the time, we're human beings who were made to keep creating.

Back to my question? Is it too much to grab his co** in his office or would that make him too uncomfortable
The guy has kids which means there are children involved = it is morally impermissible and therefore you are the scum of the earth.

You suck, and you don't deserve any advice :kick:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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djgirl said:
You can bad mouth me all you want, at the end of the day shiz like this goes on all the time, we're human beings who were made to keep creating.

Back to my question? Is it too much to grab his co** in his office or would that make him too uncomfortable?
We all know you're just a troll, but how old are you, 12?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Funny how I'm getting flamed but yet there's guys on here who come on and ask the same questions about married women and they all get advice given them :/
 

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djgirl said:
There's nothing at stake really. His wife doesn't know me, his leaving in a few weeks, no one will ever find out. It will just be our dirty secret
You "sex text like crazy" but his wife will never find out? Famous last words...

In any event, since he has already told you that "you can make out", I'm not sure exactly what kind of advice you are looking for. Do you need detailed instructions on how to spread your legs?
 
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