"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Seducing married men?

narcissist

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djgirl said:
You can bad mouth me all you want, at the end of the day shiz like this goes on all the time, we're human beings who were made to keep creating.

Back to my question? Is it too much to grab his co** in his office or would that make him too uncomfortable
The guy has kids which means there are children involved = it is morally impermissible and therefore you are the scum of the earth.

You suck, and you don't deserve any advice :kick:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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djgirl said:
You can bad mouth me all you want, at the end of the day shiz like this goes on all the time, we're human beings who were made to keep creating.

Back to my question? Is it too much to grab his co** in his office or would that make him too uncomfortable?
We all know you're just a troll, but how old are you, 12?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Funny how I'm getting flamed but yet there's guys on here who come on and ask the same questions about married women and they all get advice given them :/
 

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djgirl said:
There's nothing at stake really. His wife doesn't know me, his leaving in a few weeks, no one will ever find out. It will just be our dirty secret
You "sex text like crazy" but his wife will never find out? Famous last words...

In any event, since he has already told you that "you can make out", I'm not sure exactly what kind of advice you are looking for. Do you need detailed instructions on how to spread your legs?
 
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