"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey everbody!! I hope you guys are having a great weekend. Though out here in the east coast it has been madd cold. Anyways....here we go.......................

Have ever wondered why women love musicians so much? Ofcourse there are many reasons for this...but...lets get to the core. Musicians instill powerful emotions in people. Think of the last time you heard a great song. Think about how the music got under your skin. How it pleased you. Think about how the melody stayed in your head for days after you heard it, altering your mood and emotions, relaxing and EXCITING you.

The emotions musicians create can be of LOVE, EXCITMENT, and JOY. Always remember: Emotions COMPELL US TO ACT. Great leaders have understood this for a long time. Good ones use this knowledge for good while bad ones use this to destroy entire cultures(and ofcourse all reading this will use this knowledge for good). Anyways...........................

If we want to attract women on a MASS scale we must understand the SOURCE of the MASS attracters SUCCESS. And harness it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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rakishness said:
Hey everbody!! I hope you guys are having a great weekend. Though out here in the east coast it has been madd cold. Anyways....here we go.......................

Have ever wondered why women love musicians so much? Ofcourse there are many reasons for this...but...lets get to the core. Musicians instill powerful emotions in people. Think of the last time you heard a great song. Think about how the music got under your skin. How it pleased you. Think about how the melody stayed in your head for days after you heard it, altering your mood and emotions, relaxing and EXCITING you.

The emotions musicians create can be of LOVE, EXCITMENT, and JOY. Always remember: Emotions COMPELL US TO ACT. Great leaders have understood this for a long time. Good ones use this knowledge for good while bad ones use this to destroy entire cultures(and ofcourse all reading this will use this knowledge for good). Anyways...........................

If we want to attract women on a MASS scale we must understand the SOURCE of the MASS attracters SUCCESS. And harness it.
Ok...........................................whats your point?
 

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rakishness said:
Hey everbody!! I hope you guys are having a great weekend. Though out here in the east coast it has been madd cold. Anyways....here we go.......................

Have ever wondered why women love musicians so much? Ofcourse there are many reasons for this...but...lets get to the core. Musicians instill powerful emotions in people. Think of the last time you heard a great song. Think about how the music got under your skin. How it pleased you. Think about how the melody stayed in your head for days after you heard it, altering your mood and emotions, relaxing and EXCITING you.

The emotions musicians create can be of LOVE, EXCITMENT, and JOY. Always remember: Emotions COMPELL US TO ACT. Great leaders have understood this for a long time. Good ones use this knowledge for good while bad ones use this to destroy entire cultures(and ofcourse all reading this will use this knowledge for good). Anyways...........................

If we want to attract women on a MASS scale we must understand the SOURCE of the MASS attracters SUCCESS. And harness it.
so you mean we have to sing to chicks all the time instead of talking to them?
 

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ChrizZ said:
so you mean we have to sing to chicks all the time instead of talking to them?
You guys are severly missing the point. Why do I even try?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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rakishness said:
You guys are severly missing the point. Why do I even try?
So you really think we have to trigger a chicks emotions? That´s the most pathetic thing I´ve ever heard...:eek:
 

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The act of creation is divine, and the will, skill, confidence and power to be an artist in any field is an aphrodisiac to many women.

I really think the best thing a lot of the virgins round here could do is to form a band. You WILL get laid.
 

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You know what. I give up. I'm the IDIOT. Let me feed your fantasies.

You can get any woman anywhere regardless of looks, status or money. Kino works. ****y and Funny should be used all time!!!!
 

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Let me continue to feed your fantasies.......

Confidence is the only thing that matters when it comes to getting women. With confidence you can get any women you WANT. The only thing that matters is your inner game. With confidence we can achieve our hearts desires. LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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rakishness, you are probably the worst poster on this board. You don't know what the hell you are talking about, and instead of trying to learn, you spout this ridiculous worthless crap. I thnk I should block you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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michaelhctam said:
Ok...........................................whats your point?
Don't act like a smartass.

He is giving good insight, he's point is that women act based on emotions, you can't control your emotions, women can't either, so to aid you in seducing a woman you should always use emotions rather than logics.

How can you guys miss the point?
 

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I had a discussion with the gal I'm dating on attraction. I said how to attract a woman is easy.. give her an emotional experience. The gal agreed, without being compliant.. she just had no way or desire to argue what was said, a truth was spoken.

The deal for us is how to evoke emotions.
 

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He was basically stating woman act upon emotion rather than logic. The music/instrument thing was just an example. I doubt he literally meant go grab the nearest Acoustic and poor your heart out over a 3 chord strumming pattern =) Although that's not a bad idea to pick up an instrument =P
 

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Besides the confidence bashing, rakishness made good points.

Identifying the problem is good. If you don't establish emotion connections in a woman, you're probably not going to get far with her.

But the hardest part is answering how to go about doing so? Action dates are a good start.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nice :)

Be a powerful and confident man and girl feels protected around you (important). Focus in having fun and create excitment by being man of action and being spontaneous. Every girl wants to be around guys like this (=love them).
 
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