"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"Secrets" of MASS attraction

rakishness

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Hey everbody!! I hope you guys are having a great weekend. Though out here in the east coast it has been madd cold. Anyways....here we go.......................

Have ever wondered why women love musicians so much? Ofcourse there are many reasons for this...but...lets get to the core. Musicians instill powerful emotions in people. Think of the last time you heard a great song. Think about how the music got under your skin. How it pleased you. Think about how the melody stayed in your head for days after you heard it, altering your mood and emotions, relaxing and EXCITING you.

The emotions musicians create can be of LOVE, EXCITMENT, and JOY. Always remember: Emotions COMPELL US TO ACT. Great leaders have understood this for a long time. Good ones use this knowledge for good while bad ones use this to destroy entire cultures(and ofcourse all reading this will use this knowledge for good). Anyways...........................

If we want to attract women on a MASS scale we must understand the SOURCE of the MASS attracters SUCCESS. And harness it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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rakishness said:
Hey everbody!! I hope you guys are having a great weekend. Though out here in the east coast it has been madd cold. Anyways....here we go.......................

Have ever wondered why women love musicians so much? Ofcourse there are many reasons for this...but...lets get to the core. Musicians instill powerful emotions in people. Think of the last time you heard a great song. Think about how the music got under your skin. How it pleased you. Think about how the melody stayed in your head for days after you heard it, altering your mood and emotions, relaxing and EXCITING you.

The emotions musicians create can be of LOVE, EXCITMENT, and JOY. Always remember: Emotions COMPELL US TO ACT. Great leaders have understood this for a long time. Good ones use this knowledge for good while bad ones use this to destroy entire cultures(and ofcourse all reading this will use this knowledge for good). Anyways...........................

If we want to attract women on a MASS scale we must understand the SOURCE of the MASS attracters SUCCESS. And harness it.
Ok...........................................whats your point?
 

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rakishness said:
Hey everbody!! I hope you guys are having a great weekend. Though out here in the east coast it has been madd cold. Anyways....here we go.......................

Have ever wondered why women love musicians so much? Ofcourse there are many reasons for this...but...lets get to the core. Musicians instill powerful emotions in people. Think of the last time you heard a great song. Think about how the music got under your skin. How it pleased you. Think about how the melody stayed in your head for days after you heard it, altering your mood and emotions, relaxing and EXCITING you.

The emotions musicians create can be of LOVE, EXCITMENT, and JOY. Always remember: Emotions COMPELL US TO ACT. Great leaders have understood this for a long time. Good ones use this knowledge for good while bad ones use this to destroy entire cultures(and ofcourse all reading this will use this knowledge for good). Anyways...........................

If we want to attract women on a MASS scale we must understand the SOURCE of the MASS attracters SUCCESS. And harness it.
so you mean we have to sing to chicks all the time instead of talking to them?
 

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ChrizZ said:
so you mean we have to sing to chicks all the time instead of talking to them?
You guys are severly missing the point. Why do I even try?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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rakishness said:
You guys are severly missing the point. Why do I even try?
So you really think we have to trigger a chicks emotions? That´s the most pathetic thing I´ve ever heard...:eek:
 

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The act of creation is divine, and the will, skill, confidence and power to be an artist in any field is an aphrodisiac to many women.

I really think the best thing a lot of the virgins round here could do is to form a band. You WILL get laid.
 

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You know what. I give up. I'm the IDIOT. Let me feed your fantasies.

You can get any woman anywhere regardless of looks, status or money. Kino works. ****y and Funny should be used all time!!!!
 

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Let me continue to feed your fantasies.......

Confidence is the only thing that matters when it comes to getting women. With confidence you can get any women you WANT. The only thing that matters is your inner game. With confidence we can achieve our hearts desires. LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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rakishness, you are probably the worst poster on this board. You don't know what the hell you are talking about, and instead of trying to learn, you spout this ridiculous worthless crap. I thnk I should block you.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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michaelhctam said:
Ok...........................................whats your point?
Don't act like a smartass.

He is giving good insight, he's point is that women act based on emotions, you can't control your emotions, women can't either, so to aid you in seducing a woman you should always use emotions rather than logics.

How can you guys miss the point?
 

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I had a discussion with the gal I'm dating on attraction. I said how to attract a woman is easy.. give her an emotional experience. The gal agreed, without being compliant.. she just had no way or desire to argue what was said, a truth was spoken.

The deal for us is how to evoke emotions.
 

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He was basically stating woman act upon emotion rather than logic. The music/instrument thing was just an example. I doubt he literally meant go grab the nearest Acoustic and poor your heart out over a 3 chord strumming pattern =) Although that's not a bad idea to pick up an instrument =P
 

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Besides the confidence bashing, rakishness made good points.

Identifying the problem is good. If you don't establish emotion connections in a woman, you're probably not going to get far with her.

But the hardest part is answering how to go about doing so? Action dates are a good start.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Nice :)

Be a powerful and confident man and girl feels protected around you (important). Focus in having fun and create excitment by being man of action and being spontaneous. Every girl wants to be around guys like this (=love them).
 
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