"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"Secrets" of MASS attraction

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Hey everbody!! I hope you guys are having a great weekend. Though out here in the east coast it has been madd cold. Anyways....here we go.......................

Have ever wondered why women love musicians so much? Ofcourse there are many reasons for this...but...lets get to the core. Musicians instill powerful emotions in people. Think of the last time you heard a great song. Think about how the music got under your skin. How it pleased you. Think about how the melody stayed in your head for days after you heard it, altering your mood and emotions, relaxing and EXCITING you.

The emotions musicians create can be of LOVE, EXCITMENT, and JOY. Always remember: Emotions COMPELL US TO ACT. Great leaders have understood this for a long time. Good ones use this knowledge for good while bad ones use this to destroy entire cultures(and ofcourse all reading this will use this knowledge for good). Anyways...........................

If we want to attract women on a MASS scale we must understand the SOURCE of the MASS attracters SUCCESS. And harness it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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rakishness said:
Hey everbody!! I hope you guys are having a great weekend. Though out here in the east coast it has been madd cold. Anyways....here we go.......................

Have ever wondered why women love musicians so much? Ofcourse there are many reasons for this...but...lets get to the core. Musicians instill powerful emotions in people. Think of the last time you heard a great song. Think about how the music got under your skin. How it pleased you. Think about how the melody stayed in your head for days after you heard it, altering your mood and emotions, relaxing and EXCITING you.

The emotions musicians create can be of LOVE, EXCITMENT, and JOY. Always remember: Emotions COMPELL US TO ACT. Great leaders have understood this for a long time. Good ones use this knowledge for good while bad ones use this to destroy entire cultures(and ofcourse all reading this will use this knowledge for good). Anyways...........................

If we want to attract women on a MASS scale we must understand the SOURCE of the MASS attracters SUCCESS. And harness it.
Ok...........................................whats your point?
 

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rakishness said:
Hey everbody!! I hope you guys are having a great weekend. Though out here in the east coast it has been madd cold. Anyways....here we go.......................

Have ever wondered why women love musicians so much? Ofcourse there are many reasons for this...but...lets get to the core. Musicians instill powerful emotions in people. Think of the last time you heard a great song. Think about how the music got under your skin. How it pleased you. Think about how the melody stayed in your head for days after you heard it, altering your mood and emotions, relaxing and EXCITING you.

The emotions musicians create can be of LOVE, EXCITMENT, and JOY. Always remember: Emotions COMPELL US TO ACT. Great leaders have understood this for a long time. Good ones use this knowledge for good while bad ones use this to destroy entire cultures(and ofcourse all reading this will use this knowledge for good). Anyways...........................

If we want to attract women on a MASS scale we must understand the SOURCE of the MASS attracters SUCCESS. And harness it.
so you mean we have to sing to chicks all the time instead of talking to them?
 

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ChrizZ said:
so you mean we have to sing to chicks all the time instead of talking to them?
You guys are severly missing the point. Why do I even try?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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rakishness said:
You guys are severly missing the point. Why do I even try?
So you really think we have to trigger a chicks emotions? That´s the most pathetic thing I´ve ever heard...:eek:
 

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The act of creation is divine, and the will, skill, confidence and power to be an artist in any field is an aphrodisiac to many women.

I really think the best thing a lot of the virgins round here could do is to form a band. You WILL get laid.
 

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You know what. I give up. I'm the IDIOT. Let me feed your fantasies.

You can get any woman anywhere regardless of looks, status or money. Kino works. ****y and Funny should be used all time!!!!
 

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Let me continue to feed your fantasies.......

Confidence is the only thing that matters when it comes to getting women. With confidence you can get any women you WANT. The only thing that matters is your inner game. With confidence we can achieve our hearts desires. LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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rakishness, you are probably the worst poster on this board. You don't know what the hell you are talking about, and instead of trying to learn, you spout this ridiculous worthless crap. I thnk I should block you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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michaelhctam said:
Ok...........................................whats your point?
Don't act like a smartass.

He is giving good insight, he's point is that women act based on emotions, you can't control your emotions, women can't either, so to aid you in seducing a woman you should always use emotions rather than logics.

How can you guys miss the point?
 

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I had a discussion with the gal I'm dating on attraction. I said how to attract a woman is easy.. give her an emotional experience. The gal agreed, without being compliant.. she just had no way or desire to argue what was said, a truth was spoken.

The deal for us is how to evoke emotions.
 

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He was basically stating woman act upon emotion rather than logic. The music/instrument thing was just an example. I doubt he literally meant go grab the nearest Acoustic and poor your heart out over a 3 chord strumming pattern =) Although that's not a bad idea to pick up an instrument =P
 

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Besides the confidence bashing, rakishness made good points.

Identifying the problem is good. If you don't establish emotion connections in a woman, you're probably not going to get far with her.

But the hardest part is answering how to go about doing so? Action dates are a good start.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Nice :)

Be a powerful and confident man and girl feels protected around you (important). Focus in having fun and create excitment by being man of action and being spontaneous. Every girl wants to be around guys like this (=love them).
 
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