"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Second try

HolyG

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OK, so I had this chance with this girl earlier, but things didn't work out- I guess it was my fault, because I didn't go after her hard enough. But she flirted with another guy in front of me, which kinda pissed me off. Now I realize it was just another shyt test.

Anyway, I'm gonna go see her, for like the first time in 2 weeks. I want her to be my gf, so do you have any tips, etc. I dont want to screw this up.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Forms

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that's a pretty board question. Read parts of the DJ bible that you think would be applicable to this type of situation. You already know you need to pursue her harder.

As for what to do when she flirts with another guy, what do the rest of you guys think? I personally keep my cool, maybe even tease her a little about it. In terms of dealing with the guy, if you're on a date with the girl, don't be afraid to act like a boyfriend. Go up, put your arm around her, "who's your little friend here?"
 

kyphan

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Yes, one tip - since you have already put her on a pedastal, forget about her and move on.

(what?)

That's right. You have already failed once, she is showing interest in other men, and now she's going to drag you along for the ride. Skip town on her and move on to someone else.
 
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