"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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HolyG

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OK, so I had this chance with this girl earlier, but things didn't work out- I guess it was my fault, because I didn't go after her hard enough. But she flirted with another guy in front of me, which kinda pissed me off. Now I realize it was just another shyt test.

Anyway, I'm gonna go see her, for like the first time in 2 weeks. I want her to be my gf, so do you have any tips, etc. I dont want to screw this up.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Forms

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that's a pretty board question. Read parts of the DJ bible that you think would be applicable to this type of situation. You already know you need to pursue her harder.

As for what to do when she flirts with another guy, what do the rest of you guys think? I personally keep my cool, maybe even tease her a little about it. In terms of dealing with the guy, if you're on a date with the girl, don't be afraid to act like a boyfriend. Go up, put your arm around her, "who's your little friend here?"
 
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Yes, one tip - since you have already put her on a pedastal, forget about her and move on.

(what?)

That's right. You have already failed once, she is showing interest in other men, and now she's going to drag you along for the ride. Skip town on her and move on to someone else.
 
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