“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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HolyG

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OK, so I had this chance with this girl earlier, but things didn't work out- I guess it was my fault, because I didn't go after her hard enough. But she flirted with another guy in front of me, which kinda pissed me off. Now I realize it was just another shyt test.

Anyway, I'm gonna go see her, for like the first time in 2 weeks. I want her to be my gf, so do you have any tips, etc. I dont want to screw this up.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Forms

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that's a pretty board question. Read parts of the DJ bible that you think would be applicable to this type of situation. You already know you need to pursue her harder.

As for what to do when she flirts with another guy, what do the rest of you guys think? I personally keep my cool, maybe even tease her a little about it. In terms of dealing with the guy, if you're on a date with the girl, don't be afraid to act like a boyfriend. Go up, put your arm around her, "who's your little friend here?"
 

kyphan

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Yes, one tip - since you have already put her on a pedastal, forget about her and move on.

(what?)

That's right. You have already failed once, she is showing interest in other men, and now she's going to drag you along for the ride. Skip town on her and move on to someone else.
 
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