"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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SECOND CHANCES; advice

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Is a guy entitled to a second chance on an approach?
Although Im open to a variety of women I had one girl targeted from class. I was determined to talk to her. Then I saw her after class in the library. The only part of my game that lacks is my approach anxiety which wrapped its claws around my neck. I pushed it aside and said "Hey" to her and she smiled and said "hey" back. I quickly pointed out how nice her dress was, she thanked me and then I decided to rip her soul out, PAUSE in the conversation and I responded with, "you must have stolen it from my grandma," and we laughed. Unfortunately, I was nervous and asked her something stupid from class, she responds, blah, blah. I asked her where the tutor center was and then I left.

I went and sat down next to another girl from my class and we hit it off perfectly, I got her name, number, etc; It just went smooth.

I want to know if I should give the first girl a second chance to see if we could hit it off or do you think she's probably made up her mind about me. Dying to get some advice on this one.

& please stop being a bunch of pads and give a fellow guy some advice dont jsut read this post,,, hah
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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alkaline hero said:
I want to know if I should give the first girl a second chance to see if we could hit it off or do you think she's probably made up her mind about me. Dying to get some advice on this one.
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Why would she have her mind made up about you?

Next time you see her, start talking about your social life. Parties, bars, etc. Tell her, "You should come with me to (blank). What's your number?" She'll give you her number. Then take it from there.
 
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Thanks for the advice man that sounds pretty damn fine.
 
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