"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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secksual balance?

Roober

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Hey guys, wondering how you guys treat your ladies in regards to the topic?

I tend to be very unselfish, maybe too unselfish. I try to make sure she bust a nut one or more times each and every time, maybe not a good train of thought. What I realized is the BJs starting getting less because I would stop her so I could go down on her or get her off with the main event.

Looking back, this was probably really bad. Should I have just let it go, and get her the next time? Or helped her out afterward? I believe you need to rock a girl's world to keep her coming back for more, but maybe every time is a bit excessive...

It probably sends the message that... that's not so good, so I am stopping you. Which totally wasn't true. For me, it was like... then we're done and it leaves you hanging... i dunno.. I guessI should have just been more selfish...

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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yes, let her finish the BJ. Yes you are being too unselfish. No BJ, no going "downtown" for her.
 
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