"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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secksual balance?

Roober

Roober

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Hey guys, wondering how you guys treat your ladies in regards to the topic?

I tend to be very unselfish, maybe too unselfish. I try to make sure she bust a nut one or more times each and every time, maybe not a good train of thought. What I realized is the BJs starting getting less because I would stop her so I could go down on her or get her off with the main event.

Looking back, this was probably really bad. Should I have just let it go, and get her the next time? Or helped her out afterward? I believe you need to rock a girl's world to keep her coming back for more, but maybe every time is a bit excessive...

It probably sends the message that... that's not so good, so I am stopping you. Which totally wasn't true. For me, it was like... then we're done and it leaves you hanging... i dunno.. I guessI should have just been more selfish...

Thoughts?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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yes, let her finish the BJ. Yes you are being too unselfish. No BJ, no going "downtown" for her.
 
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