"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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secksual balance?

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Hey guys, wondering how you guys treat your ladies in regards to the topic?

I tend to be very unselfish, maybe too unselfish. I try to make sure she bust a nut one or more times each and every time, maybe not a good train of thought. What I realized is the BJs starting getting less because I would stop her so I could go down on her or get her off with the main event.

Looking back, this was probably really bad. Should I have just let it go, and get her the next time? Or helped her out afterward? I believe you need to rock a girl's world to keep her coming back for more, but maybe every time is a bit excessive...

It probably sends the message that... that's not so good, so I am stopping you. Which totally wasn't true. For me, it was like... then we're done and it leaves you hanging... i dunno.. I guessI should have just been more selfish...

Thoughts?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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yes, let her finish the BJ. Yes you are being too unselfish. No BJ, no going "downtown" for her.
 
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