"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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secksual balance?

Roober

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Hey guys, wondering how you guys treat your ladies in regards to the topic?

I tend to be very unselfish, maybe too unselfish. I try to make sure she bust a nut one or more times each and every time, maybe not a good train of thought. What I realized is the BJs starting getting less because I would stop her so I could go down on her or get her off with the main event.

Looking back, this was probably really bad. Should I have just let it go, and get her the next time? Or helped her out afterward? I believe you need to rock a girl's world to keep her coming back for more, but maybe every time is a bit excessive...

It probably sends the message that... that's not so good, so I am stopping you. Which totally wasn't true. For me, it was like... then we're done and it leaves you hanging... i dunno.. I guessI should have just been more selfish...

Thoughts?
 

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sodbuster

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yes, let her finish the BJ. Yes you are being too unselfish. No BJ, no going "downtown" for her.
 
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