"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Secial Case(asking out through the phone)

loveyou

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to make a long story short:

I met a girl in college in one of my classes. we where in the same group, talk got along fine. Two years have passed since we have spoken with each other. however i was able to her home phone number back then(in case we had questions on homework or something).Know i find myself wanting to ask her out.

how should i approach this situation since i want to ask her out through the phone and i have'nt talked to her in two years? is there any special thing i should do? im sure she will remember me. how should i ask her out and where? i dont want her to think im stalking her.

Thanks. any advice will be greatly appreciated.:up: :box:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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basbhat

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You know what, it's funny, when I was a bit younger(5 years ago) I was thinking about the same thing myself. I met this girl in class, got her #, left the city, came back, and then I called her up 6 months later. Nothing ever came of it.

Honestly, who cares. Are you sure your not desperate? If so, forget it..it won't work out....It's worth a shot for ****s and giggles, if anything to say at least you tried and as a confidence builder. I would not be attached to the result whatsover though! Hope that helps!
 

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just call her. I've done this (once) before, she was shocked that I still had her number, and it just so happened her BF at the time was getting on her nerves.. we went on a couple of dates. they eventually got back together, but I got want I wanted out of the deal :) She was smokin too
 

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nah im not desperate its just that i saw her once and i was like "hmm i should ask her out" but its all cool. maybe ill ask her next time ill see her in person.
 

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backbreaker said:
just call her. I've done this (once) before, she was shocked that I still had her number, and it just so happened her BF at the time was getting on her nerves.. we went on a couple of dates. they eventually got back together, but I got want I wanted out of the deal :) She was smokin too
Your a BEAST. lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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