"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Secial Case(asking out through the phone)

loveyou

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to make a long story short:

I met a girl in college in one of my classes. we where in the same group, talk got along fine. Two years have passed since we have spoken with each other. however i was able to her home phone number back then(in case we had questions on homework or something).Know i find myself wanting to ask her out.

how should i approach this situation since i want to ask her out through the phone and i have'nt talked to her in two years? is there any special thing i should do? im sure she will remember me. how should i ask her out and where? i dont want her to think im stalking her.

Thanks. any advice will be greatly appreciated.:up: :box:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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basbhat

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You know what, it's funny, when I was a bit younger(5 years ago) I was thinking about the same thing myself. I met this girl in class, got her #, left the city, came back, and then I called her up 6 months later. Nothing ever came of it.

Honestly, who cares. Are you sure your not desperate? If so, forget it..it won't work out....It's worth a shot for ****s and giggles, if anything to say at least you tried and as a confidence builder. I would not be attached to the result whatsover though! Hope that helps!
 

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just call her. I've done this (once) before, she was shocked that I still had her number, and it just so happened her BF at the time was getting on her nerves.. we went on a couple of dates. they eventually got back together, but I got want I wanted out of the deal :) She was smokin too
 

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nah im not desperate its just that i saw her once and i was like "hmm i should ask her out" but its all cool. maybe ill ask her next time ill see her in person.
 

In2theGame

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backbreaker said:
just call her. I've done this (once) before, she was shocked that I still had her number, and it just so happened her BF at the time was getting on her nerves.. we went on a couple of dates. they eventually got back together, but I got want I wanted out of the deal :) She was smokin too
Your a BEAST. lol
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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