"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Secial Case(asking out through the phone)

loveyou

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to make a long story short:

I met a girl in college in one of my classes. we where in the same group, talk got along fine. Two years have passed since we have spoken with each other. however i was able to her home phone number back then(in case we had questions on homework or something).Know i find myself wanting to ask her out.

how should i approach this situation since i want to ask her out through the phone and i have'nt talked to her in two years? is there any special thing i should do? im sure she will remember me. how should i ask her out and where? i dont want her to think im stalking her.

Thanks. any advice will be greatly appreciated.:up: :box:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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basbhat

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You know what, it's funny, when I was a bit younger(5 years ago) I was thinking about the same thing myself. I met this girl in class, got her #, left the city, came back, and then I called her up 6 months later. Nothing ever came of it.

Honestly, who cares. Are you sure your not desperate? If so, forget it..it won't work out....It's worth a shot for ****s and giggles, if anything to say at least you tried and as a confidence builder. I would not be attached to the result whatsover though! Hope that helps!
 

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just call her. I've done this (once) before, she was shocked that I still had her number, and it just so happened her BF at the time was getting on her nerves.. we went on a couple of dates. they eventually got back together, but I got want I wanted out of the deal :) She was smokin too
 

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nah im not desperate its just that i saw her once and i was like "hmm i should ask her out" but its all cool. maybe ill ask her next time ill see her in person.
 

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backbreaker said:
just call her. I've done this (once) before, she was shocked that I still had her number, and it just so happened her BF at the time was getting on her nerves.. we went on a couple of dates. they eventually got back together, but I got want I wanted out of the deal :) She was smokin too
Your a BEAST. lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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