screw the fundamentals

[dbot]

Here's what I see happening:

New guy shows up
New guy asks AFC question
New guy gets replies to "read the bible"
New guy reads bible
New guy follows all the rules in the bible
New guy still fails
New guy begins to over-analyze the bible
New guy wonders if he should have waited 4 days to call instead of 3
New guy wonders if his neg-hit was too negative
New guy creates a topic asking more stupid questions
New guy sits in the corner and cries

So what's wrong with this guy? Could it be his technique?

"It can't be! I'm doing everything by the book!"


And there's your problem.

Being a DJ is not about technique. It's not about following rules and conditions. It's not about one-liners or neg-hits or KINO. It's not even about women. It's about you. That's right, being a DJ is all about you, and your self-worth. This is why mindset is so important. In fact, it's the key to everything. I'll repeat that...


Mindset is the key to EVERYTHING

Without mindset, you won't be confident, you won't be ambitious, you won't be motivated, you won't be successful. It's the foundation on which everything else is built.


How do I achieve this mindset?

• Go to bed earlier
• Get up earlier
• Eat healthier
• Cut your hair
• Dress nicer
• Go to the gym

Improve yourself in as many ways as possible. Set goals. When you reach your goals, set new ones. Be optimistic. Get a sense of humor. Get a job. Give yourself something to live for (not women). Persue your interests. Have ambition. Take pride in everything you do. LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF!!!!!!

Once you get the mindset, everything else falls into place. A true DJ doesn't "wait" 3 to 6 days to call, he simply calls when he gets the chance. See the difference? He doesn't neg-hit anybody, he just speaks his mind. He doesn't pretend to be something special, he is something special. Remember, not until you truly love yourself will you reach "nirvana."

 

[mesarectoverb]

A-motherf*cking-men!

 

[Egyptiandude1]

definately a sticky if not bible material

clear and to the point

 

[Sammo]

Sex, popularity, love, it all comes with self improvement.

 

[dbot]

bump...

 

[Smooth as Anything]

Originally posted by Sammo
Sex, popularity, love, it all comes with self improvement.

And thereby, value

Just tell them to read my "bible".

(From the beginning to the very end)

 

[MoAF]

I hate mindset posts. They are inane and they lack a basic understanding of the human mind. But not this post. This post was sexy, I like it. Don't think your a king, treat yourself like a king.

However... grabyournutscrashandburn-style approaching will teach you JUST as much about yourself as a few hours of meditation. Never surrender the field!

 

[oOh Nasty]

Originally posted by MoAF
I hate mindset posts. They are inane and they lack a basic understanding of the human mind. But not this post. This post was sexy, I like it. Don't think your a king, treat yourself like a king.

However... grabyournutscrashandburn-style approaching will teach you JUST as much about yourself as a few hours of meditation. Never surrender the field!

uhm. mindset posts are the best posts

 

[Smooth as Anything]

Originally posted by MoAF
I hate mindset posts. They are inane and they lack a basic understanding of the human mind.

....

 

[MoAF]

Lol, are you trying to tell me when you read "Be A Man" by pook for the first time you went out and approached 100 women? Hah, I didn't think so. You went out and approached because you felt you knew how... because of tecknique posts. And from your experiences you formulated your own mindset, and molded it around Be A Man.

Its true... mindset posts are very rarely applicable to the mind. Sad, really, all these people post and have no understanding of themselves, let alone the masses.

However, this was a great post, lets not ruin it by bickering.

 

[Hot Ice]

Originally posted by dbot
New guy wonders if he should have waited 4 days to call instead of 3
New guy wonders if his neg-hit was too negative
New guy creates a topic asking more stupid questions
New guy sits in the corner and cries

Hahaha!

I see your point bro!
and it's good.

 

[Vercetti]

well put

 

[SuSHI]

MoAF,

I'm not bickering here. I think mindset posts alone will not do anything for everyone.
But what kind of post alone will?

Mindset combined with technnical(sp?) posts will do wonders.

Reading those technique posts alone and "acting like you have confidence by standing like this and that..." that stuff is sh!t. You will definately crash and burn if that is the way you are going.

Mindset posts are IMO the most important kinds of posts because you will not come off as "faking" anything. Combine these with the techs and you are a pimp!

BTW, this was a fvcking wicked post.

By irony, I think it deserves a spot in the Bible.

SuSHI.

 

[dbot]

bump.. more people should see this.

 

[Porky]

Nice post =) It's all about making up your own style. I personally never use neg-hits, because it wouldn't fit in with my regular attitude of being friendly towards everybody.

 

[WangThang]

This is a great post.

 

[Solomon]

Aww the glory days of SS

uppin

It's crack!!!

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

This guy has he's sh1t together.

Great post. Exactly what these guys need.

Keep em coming. Respect

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

http://www.ffbmc.com/Pictures/People/bump.jpg

EDIT: LOL , i just noticed that this was posted on 2003.

 

[dbot]

I was gonna say, I thought I recognized that thread title